LGBTQ+ Mental Health Blog
Resources to help you thrive as a LGBTQ+ person.

What is Bi Erasure?
Bisexuality and bi+ identities are the largest subgroup of the LGBTQ+ community. While mighty in number, bisexuality is often overlooked, invalidated, or simply ignored.
If there are so many bi+ people, why do we often feel so alone?

5 Things Your LGBTQ Therapist Wants You to Know
Starting therapy and reaching out to a LGBTQ+ therapist can bring many unknowns. Here are five things as a queer therapist that I want my clients to know.

3 Harmful Myths About LGBTQ+ Relational Trauma
LGBTQ+ people experience higher rates of abuse and trauma than their cis-het counterparts. Yet, most discussions about childhood and relationship abuse survivors focus on cis, straight women. So why are LGBTQ+ survivors’ voices being silenced? Let’s look at three harmful myths that disempower and discredit LGBTQ+ trauma survivors.

What are Healthy Boundaries in Friendships?
It's crucial that friendships are built on a foundation of respect, understanding, and consideration for each other's needs. This is particularly important for LGBTQ+ people who turn to friends and family of choice when rejected by their family of origin. As a licensed psychologist I often speak with clients about the patterns that exist in their family of origin. Then we look at how they want to either repeat those healthy patterns or replace those unhealthy patterns when it comes to their chosen relationships.

How to Find a LGBTQ+ Therapist in Minneapolis, MN
Finding a new therapist can be a task! Add on the fact that you’re looking for a LGBTQ+ therapist and the search becomes even more daunting. Instead of having to rely on Google searches, here are several ways to find your next LGBTQ+ therapist in Minneapolis.

Dealing with Homophobic Parents or Family over the Holidays
For many people, the winter season and holidays mean more time with family. For LGBTQ+ people, being around homophobic, biphobic, and transphobic family members can bring additional stress.

Is Drag Therapeutic?
New research highlights what many drag queen and kings already know to be true: drag can be therapeutic and benefit your mental health.

When Should I Get Therapy For Anxiety?
You cannot completely avoid stress and anxiety in your life. You can learn to feel more capable of quieting the anxiety and trusting yourself to get through it. Getting therapy can help with this, but how do you know when it’s time to get therapy for anxiety?

What Is Trauma-Informed Therapy?
It is especially important for LGBTQ+ people to have a trauma-informed therapist. But what does it mean when a therapist says they are trauma-informed?

How to Overcome Perfectionism and Self-Criticism
There are some unique ways that perfectionism plagues queer and trans folks compared to cis-het people. Regardless of where your critical self-talk and pressure to achieve comes from, there are daily changes you can make to help overcome the perfectionism.